Saturday, October 02, 2004
4 person in your life, how many have u found?
1st-urself,
2nd-is d 1 u love most,
3rd- is d 1 who love u most,
4th-is d 1 you spend the rest of your life with.
firstly u'll meet the 1 u love most, and learn how
love feels. Because u know how love feels, so u
can find the person who loves u most. When u've
experienced the feeling of loving others and being
loved, u'll then know what it is u need most. Then u
will find the person who is most suitable for u, to
be able to spend the rest of your life with.
Sadly, in real life, these 3 people are usually not
the same person. The one u love most doesn't
love you. The one,who love u most,is never the
one u love most. And the one u spend your life
with,is never the one u love most or the one who
love u most. He/she is just the person who
happens to be at the right place at the right time.
Which person are u in other people's life? No
person will purposely have a change of heart.
At the point in time when he loves u, he/she really
loves u. But when he/she doesn't love u anymore,
he/she really doesn't love u anymore. When
he/she loves u, he/she can't pretend that he/she
doesn't. The same goes, when he/she loves u no
more, there's no way he/she can pretend he/she
loves u. When a person doesn't love u and wants
to leave u, u must ask yourself if u still love
him/her. If u don't love him/her anymore, do not
keep him/her just to save your pride. If you still
love him/her, you should wish him/her happiness,
and hope that he/she will be with the one he/she
loves most, not stopping him/her from it.
If you stop him/her from finding true happiness
with the one he/she loves, it shows u already
don't love him/her, And if you don't love him/her,
what rights do you have to blame him/her for a
change of heart?
Love is not possessive.
If you like the moon, you can't just take it down
and put it in your basin but the moonlight still
shines upon you.
In other words, when you love a person, you
cant use another method of possessing the
person. Let him/her become a permanent
memory in you life. If you really love a person, you
must love him/her for what he/she is.
Love him/her for his/her good and bad points,
You can't wish for him/her to become like what you
like him/her to be just because you love him/her.
If he/she can't change to become what you like
him/her to be, you don't love him/her anymore.
When you really love a person, you cannot find
a reason why you love him/her.
You only know that no matter when or where,
good mood or bad mood, you will wish to have
this person be with you.
Real love is when two people can go through
the toughest problems without asking for
promises or listing criteria.
In a relationship, you have to put in effort and
give in at times, not always be on the receiving
end.
Being away from each other is a type of test.
If the relationship isn't strong, then you can
only admit defeat. Real love will never become
hate.
When two people are in love, they love to ask
each other to make promises.
Why do they ask each other to promise?
Because they don't trust each other, they don't
trust their lover.
These promises are useless; till the sky falls, till
the ocean dries, my love for u will never change!
We all know that the sky will never fall; the ocean
will never dries, Even if it does happen, are we
still alive by then? Be careful when making
promises; don't make promises that you cannot
keep.
In a relationship, what you say is one thing, but
what you do is another; The 1 saying, doesn't
believe; the 1 listening, also doesn't believe.
Then, where is the love?
Most importantly, live each day at a time &
treasure those around you. Thats the best you
can do. *cheerios*
kai-mmunist teachings 4:34 PM
